UPDATE: We got the call. Recruit Cook has made it to MCRD Parris Island.
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He's now on his way and has actually probably already arrived at Parris Island. I'm hoping we get his 20-second scripted call tonight that lets us know he made it.
I'm not going to sugar-coat — it's been a rough couple of days for me. I'm not usually a weepy mom. Heck, I was dancing a jig, not crying like the other moms, when my sons went off to kindergarten one-by-one. LOL! But whew … I hardly slept at all last night and I am crying at the drop of a hat today. Even dad teared up giving DS the "final" hug before he was really on his way this afternoon and he NEVER cries.
I *really* appreciate everyone's kind comments and support. I know I'll get through this and I'm not sad at all that he joined the Marines. Just sad that he's no longer my "baby" and because I'll miss him so much. We've always been really close. Peter, a special thank-you to you for your early morning shout-out on your blog today. I think I love you. :-) And whenever you're ready to ship out those two cutie-pie chihuahuas, I'll be waiting.
Meanwhile, while I keep dabbing at my eyes, I'll leave you with a link to the UCreate Create-With-Me August gallery of table runners, which includes my two that I showed you earlier this month. Lots of really pretty stuff. Even if you're not a quilter at all, you should think about trying one. Seriously. They go fast, are fun, and I think will make great gifts! Have a look here.
Now I think I'll put in the laundry that DS left me to remember him by. ;-) And his brother is already making plans to move into his bigger and more private room. What a stinker! But does that mean I now get TWO sewing rooms?
Best wishes for your son. A proud thing to serve our country.
ReplyDeleteShort answer- yes, you get 2 sewing rooms!
ReplyDeleteOh hang in there, Debbie! It has to be so hard!!
*hugs*
I'm a Mom of two grown men who used to be my little boys. We'll always be close...that never changes. And Debbie, you too will always be close to your sons no matter where they go or what they do. Thank you for sharing your feelings about this momentous occasion!
ReplyDeleteAll blessings to your son, Debbie. Thank you for your generosity in everything you share with us. Semper Fi!
ReplyDeleteNo, no, Debbie - knock the wall down between your sewing room and the extra bedroom and have one HUGE sewing room! Seriously, I feel for you. Bawled when my kids went off to college, especially the one that moved cross-country. It's so hard not to think of them as kids anymore. Have lots of chocolate and treat yourself to some fabric therapy.
ReplyDeleteHang in there, kiddo! Don't tell my DH - those Navy guys refer to Marines as "passengers!"
ReplyDeleteI can certainly relate to your situation Debbie. It's been two years since my son joined the Defence Force (Infantry) here in Australia and I miss him a lot. Such an honour and a privilege to serve your country though. He is my eldest and it was a sad day when he left but I was so proud to see him in uniform at his March Out Day.
ReplyDeleteHugs to you, Debbie. My son is still a baby, gonna be 5 in a few weeks. The thought of him growing up and leaving the nest makes me want to cry along with you. Thank your son for his service and dedication for me.
ReplyDeleteI thought of you today. He looks so "Marine." Definitely, 2 sewing rooms....are they adjacent so you could knock out a wall and get one BIG one?
ReplyDeleteBeen thinking about you today. Just lots of big 'ol hugs.
ReplyDeleteHe'll always be your little boy, no matter what! I'm sure you have mixed feelings on the whole USMC thing, who wouldn't? And you haven't had the prep time you thought you'd have, but such are the ways of the military.
ReplyDeleteI think you deserve 2 sewing rooms, for sure.
Congratulations to your son. You must be one very proud momma!! It says a lot about how you raised him. I would be cryin' too if it was my son - he's 14 :( They just grow too fast. Sending you hugs x
ReplyDeleteGood luck to your son and to your family. Hugs to you and yes, two sewing rooms are in order.
ReplyDeleteIt's really hard when your kids grow up and leave. Just remember you did your job and raised him well. You are proud on the one hand, but sad on the other and the sad part does get better. I wish him good luck.
ReplyDeleteIf it's next door to your sewing room it definitely opens up possibilities. Two rooms or one big one? Of course two rooms means less disruption than taking down the wall.
Debbie, I have no children, but I can understand your sadness (I get a bit choked up each year when my graduating class moves on to bigger and better things). Chin up - you are a great Mom and your son will carry you with him where ever he goes.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, the dogs are on their way. Please keep them away from the Bunny Bread.
ReplyDeleteThe answer is YES, you do get TWO sewing rooms. Because.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes to your son - be proud, Mom, you did a GREAT JOB
I vote for expanded sewing space! If they are adjacent, jut put in a door--not too disruptive from a remodeling standpoint and easier than going out into the hall into the next room. I still remember your sewing bathroom (which was awesome BTW).
ReplyDeleteNo on the 2 sewing rooms. You want him to feel like he can come home, right? My best to your son, and good wishes to help you get through it.
ReplyDeleteYES! to 2 sewing rooms.
ReplyDeleteI think a couple of new machines and some fabric are in order too!
So sorry you have to go through this sadness.
Mermie
Well wishes to your son and to you mom. No matter what, he'll always be your baby. :)
ReplyDeleteAll my best to you, your son, and your family, Debbie!
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you today! You must be so proud of him and you should be proud of yourself for raising a son that is so giving that he committed to serve his country. It is very hard to have your "babies" leave the nest, but it reflects on yourself that you have done your job, and a job well done at that! Congratulations!...2 sewing rooms? I left my other extra room as a bedroom in case anyone wants to come back...just for a visit though.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a clingy mother either but I completely understand your feelings! I don't care if we live to be 100, we'll never stop worrying about our kids! This is a huge adjustment for you and I hope things smooth out for you soon. And, I know a lot of kids that age who are in the service and they really like it!
ReplyDeleteYou have alot to be proud of! You raised a great kid!! My son will always be my baby ;) He's 26.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes to your oldest son as he begins serving our country. I also cried like a fool for a couple of days when our son left for California (he did come back, tho, ha). It's just heartwrenching to have one completely in unfamiliar territory and out of the nest, so I'll be thinking of you and your family.
ReplyDelete~Bev
Oh dear, it sounds like a hard transition. Hang in there and dream about your two sewing rooms (which you should definitely implement).
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you, Debbie. Been lurking here for awhile and am very appreciative of your generous spirit in sharing all that you do. You know, when I look at these pictures, your son is the only one of all of them that actually looks like a Marine already the way he carries himself. You are proud for all the right reasons. I'm sure he will always think of you as his Semper Fi Mom.
ReplyDeleteSo hard! But they do have to grow up and leave the nest one way or the other. Hopefully I have a few more years before my first born leaves (she is too broke!). But a new sewing room does sound good :)
ReplyDeleteI'm feeling for you Debbie. Having my middle son move to DC and out of the country was about the hardest thing I have ever had to handle. Thing is they are also your best friends and when you look at them you see not just the man they are now but the little boys they were. Know though that he feels the same way about you, just can't show it. And know too that a place for you in his new life will open up.
ReplyDeletePerhaps having him go unexpectedly is a blessing - a short goodbye is easier than a long one. And feel entitled to cry all you want. He looks to me like a great guy launched by a great mother.
I thank your son for his service and his bravery. And I thank you and your husband for raising him up to be a man his parents and his country can be proud of.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless...
Mel
Awww. Just caught up to here with my blog reading. My heart goes out to you, Debbie. {{Hugs}}
ReplyDeleteI can only imagine! Sofia is gone for a week and it sucks! That's a pretty ballsy thing he's doing. The military has good benefits, and hopefully the wars are dying down soon....
ReplyDeleteI feel your pain as amy mother would. I would keep that room as is, waiting for your son when he returns home. Blessings to both of you.
ReplyDeleteThe Few, The Proud! I come from a Marine family--father, husband, nephew. The best dress uniforms of ALL services and the richest traditions. You will now be addressed as M'am and not Mom.
ReplyDeleteYes, two sewing rooms!
Awwwww, Debbie ..............
ReplyDeleteI feel your pain! My oldest - also a son - moved halfway across the country (for a job) in June. Granted, he's almost 25, and actually left the nest at almost 19, it was hard. He's in town for training this week though. Yeah!!
"hugs"