Remember the best job ever? Yeah, me too. Except it ended unexpectedly April 4, two days after returning from my staycation. I'm in severe emotional distress. And, if I don't find a new job in the next month, I'll be in severe financial distress too. And homeless. I'm genuinely clueless on this so there really aren't any more details either on-blog or off. I'm only posting this depressing news because I'm selfishly hoping for tons of cheer-me-up comments. At this point, I still want to throw up about every 5 minutes.
Saturday, April 13, 2013
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Whoa, so sorry to here this! I hope you find something else very soon.
ReplyDeleteHear, not here.
ReplyDeleteOh Debbie, I am SO SO SORRY to hear about this sudden turn of events. I hope you find a new job soon and make it through this tough time quickly.
ReplyDeleteOMG Debbie! I'm so sorry - will send prayers and all the good vibes I have your way. Hope something turns up overnight. g
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss! I hope that you find something soon!
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I'm SO sorry and am sending all my good thoughts your way.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, so sorry to hear about this.... Hope the right company is looking for you right now and you both find each other soon!
ReplyDeleteSending positive vibes your way! Goodluck!
Holy crap. That's a shock. Sending you really strong good vibes from over the pond. I hope everything gets sorted, and quickly.
ReplyDeleteOh, Debbie, I am SO SORRY to hear this! Praying the next door opens for you very soon!
ReplyDeleteThat really, really sucks. It's even worse that you don't know why. All the best with finding a new great job.
ReplyDeleteOh sh*t. That sucks. I'm cheering for you!
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I'm so sorry to hear about this. You could check in with the temp agencies and see if they have anything available. That would at least keep a pay check coming your way while your looking. You could also check to see if there are any contracting agencies in your area. With your talent you should be able to find something quickly. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteFuck, that's hideous. I agree that temping can be a good interim way to bring in some money. Sending good vibes your way, Debbie.
ReplyDeleteI will keep you in my prayers. I am so sorry!
ReplyDeleteOh, Debbie! I'm so sorry to hear this. Such a shock! But...you found the last one by temping, so there's that option. Is unemployment compensation an option? Not much, I realize, but...
ReplyDeleteI'm sure with your talents, there will be plenty of opportunities out there for you!
I am so sorry that this is happening to some one as kind and generous as you. It is true that life really isn't fair.
ReplyDeleteIf your finances are precarious, then I would think that the number one thing to do is to find out what you may be entitled to from your ex employer, such as any severance, etc. then find out what assistance you can get and go for that too. You must be eligible for unemployment insurance. Finally, the temping idea is a good one. It's better than nothing and it gives you something to do to keep you "in the game" while you put together a long term plan.
If my advice is off base, or too forward, please forgive me. I am no expert. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh, Debbie, I'm so sorry this has happened! I hope you find an even better job--and one that turns out to be more stable. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers--and I'll keep my fingers crossed, too.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I'm so sorry to hear this. I pray you find something soon and agree about temping in the meantime. Best of luck!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to read this. Hope you're able to find something even better soon.
ReplyDeleteWow. I'm speechless - but I know the panic you are feeling now. What exactly are you looking for in a job? I do have a couple of contacts in the Tampa area. email me at htwollin at yahoo dot com.
ReplyDeleteWow. I'm speechless - but I know the panic you are feeling now. What exactly are you looking for in a job? I do have a couple of contacts in the Tampa area. email me at htwollin at yahoo dot com.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, it really hurts to get laid off. But you have new skills and better self esteem than when you were job hunting before. Put on your best smile and visit a couple of headhunters on Monday. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry! Keep your chin up and get out there, looking good, and interview everywhere.
ReplyDeleteOh no! Sending good vibes your way. Hope you find something even better soon!
ReplyDeleteDang, life sucks. You will persevere.
ReplyDeletePlease read these wonderful messages over and over to know that you are loved and cared for...
ReplyDeleteThen on Monday head back to the temp agency as someone else suggested and get assigned a new position. It won't help the heartbreak of losing the great job but it will stave off your homelessness issue.
You will be in my thoughts though I wish I was there so that I could take you out for a drink and give you several great big hugs!
I know how you feel, I had the same thing happen to me 18 months ago. I took money out of my 401K and used that for living expenses until I found a job. Sending hugs and kisses to you.
ReplyDeleteSending positive vibes your way. I hope you find another position soon, one that will provide more security for the future.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I am so sorry to hear this news. Good luck in your job hunt, I hope that yu can get on track soon.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I am so sorry to hear this news. Good luck in your job hunt, I hope that yu can get on track soon.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I am so sorry to hear about your job, but I know it will all work itself out in the end. You will continue to be in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteOMG! Definitely praying for you. Good luck in the job search.
ReplyDeleteI'm adding good thoughts and best wishes for a rapid solution to your situation. Best wishes for a great job on the near horizon!
ReplyDeleteLynda
so sorry to hear this, wishing you all the luck in the world with the search x
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry for you Debbie. Hope you get some positive feelings from all these comments and cheer up a bit. Will be difficult. Hope you find a job soon.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, Debbie. How awful! I can't believe it. I hope you find something even better soon!
ReplyDeleteHow horrible - it is bad enough to lose a job but to lose one you love so much. Incomprehensible.
ReplyDeleteI pray that you find an even better job.
I will send all of my positive thoughts and prayers and believe that fate has even better things in store for you.
No way! Why on earth would they do that to you??? Fingers crossed for a quick knock-on-the-door with a job offer soon ... J
ReplyDeleteHow awful--especially that you don't know why. I'm sure with all your skills and talents that you'll snag another job, but I know how a person's confidence takes a beating at a time like this. Just remember, you're awesome!
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I were both laid off in February. Same company and both unexpectedly.
ReplyDeleteMy last day is this week and thankfully, I've landed a new role that starts in a couple weeks which will be a much better one for me :) My husband is still looking but has a few more weeks to find something...
All that to say I *completely* understand where you are right now. And you will come thru it just fine. You are an energetic and valuable employee and will be a tremendous asset to ay company.
I am so sorry Debbie. Hopefully you will find a job quickly.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry this happened to you Debbie. You should be entitled to unemployment benefits, so get signed up for that right away so you have a little security. I know you are stressed out to the max, but continue to o things to ground yourself...sew a rocking interview outfit. Watch this TED talk for inspiration http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html We recently had a major layoff of staff that had over 20 years of experience and it's looking like more are coming soon. Think about your marketable sewing skills...your cover stitch tutorials are the best...hang in there my friend...Mary
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you. I guess a lot of us have been through this at some time in our lives, either ourselves or our partners and it is devastating. Stay strong and confident and know you have the support of all your 'followers'.
ReplyDeleteI've been in this position twice in the past 5 years, do the following as soon as you can:
ReplyDelete1) file for unemployment immediately. Your benefit will be about 50% of your salary.
2) If you got a severance package that includes outplacement services take advantage of it immediately. You'll get resume help and also coaching.
3)You will be eligible for COBRA however it can often be hard to take advantage of unless you have lots of savings so also ask about health insurance when you file for unemployment. My state provides it to people (and their dependents) while collecting unemployment.
4) Set up a LinkedIn.com account right away. I found my current job via LinkedIn and it's a really really popular site for recruiters. I still get solicited from recruiters on a regular basis. As soon as you set up your account send me an invite so I can add you to my network.
5) Set up a Monster.com account right away for the same reason.
6) There are probably recruiting firms in FL that specialize in legal placements. Now that you have experience in that industry it's valuable and you are now the type of candidate that law firms will be looking for and they all use recruiting firms.
And remember Debbie - this had NOTHING to do with you! It's just the way corporate America works these days.
oxoxoxoxo
Definitely am praying for you and a job to come really quick.
ReplyDeleteI am really sorry. It is such an unsettling time. I lost my job along with 35000 other people in my city two years ago when the city fell down in our earthquake. I didn't think I would ever find another job with soo many unemployed to compete with and being over 40. But I did and I really like my job more than my previous one. It was worth the wait. Hang in there. Every cloud has a silver lining. Something equally as good just might be around the corner.
ReplyDeleteDebbie I am so very sorry. Prayers are definitely coming your way.
ReplyDeleteOh no! Debbie, I'm so sorry to hear this! Hoping and praying for the best for you. (((HUGS)))
ReplyDeleteOh no! I KNOW that kind of distress and I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I will pray for you, truly. Everyday. You are a talented lady and I I'll pray for another wonderful job to come you way ASAP.
ReplyDeleteMan, that just sucks, and you know me, I don't use that kind of language very much. I suspect a corporate upheaval of some kind behind the scenes. Chin up, Debbie! ~Mary Beth
ReplyDeleteI'm stunned (no more than you, obviously). You deserve better than that and I *know* it will happen!
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about your predicament. This worldwide recession is sh**. I hope you can stay strong and find something else soon. Good luck in the search.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry about this Debbie. I know how you feel - been there exactly myself. I will pray you find something very soon. And I hope you will be able to share what happened. God bless, Karen Teel
ReplyDeleteOh no. How awful and how stressful. I am sure you will find another great job, and everything will be okay. ♥
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear of this, especially since it was a job you loved. Sending prayers and positive vibes that you can find an even better job soon.
ReplyDeleteDebbie that sucks. But you are a talented and resourceful person with a lot offer. Hang in there!
ReplyDeleteI'm sending healing vibes your way. I hope you find a great job soon!
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I am so sorry. You are a strong, talented, smart hard-working woman, those characteristics will help you find the perfect new job. Take care of yourself and I am thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteYou will land on your feet.
ReplyDeletePrayers.
Hi Debbie,
ReplyDeleteRotten rotten rotten!
I've been laid off before and it feels awful, especially with a job that you love and care about. If you do not know why it's happened, then you can be pretty sure the decision was not at all personal. Try as hard as you can not to take it personally. But I'm so sorry you have to go through this.
I know it would not provide a livable income, but I sure wish you would teach a cover stitch class on Craftsy or some such. I would sign up in a minute.
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ReplyDeleteDebbie I'm so sorry to hear your news. You're a wonderfully talented lady, and you'll come through this - I just know you will :)
ReplyDeleteHave faith that everything will be allright soon and it'il be. I wish you didn't have to go through this. I'il keep you in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteHugs...
WHAT????
ReplyDeleteOh Debbie, I'm so sorry to hear about this. Prayers, sure, but let us all know if there is anything that we can do in a more worldly way.
I'm so sorry. I really hope a wonderful job comes your way like tomorrow. Sending prayers your way
ReplyDeleteWishing you good fortune in finding something even more fantastic right away!
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I am so sorry to be reading this. Phyllis gave you some great advice. I hope you find something quickly. I know nothing I say will make you feel better but I wanted you know that I am sending positive thoughts your way.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I pray that the Lord will reveal to you that open door to your new job opportunity. I pray that peace will overtake you so that worry can't find you. I pray that you suffer no lost while going through this test. Be ENCOURAGED ANYHOW...the BEST is YET to come!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear this, especially since you so enjoyed this job. Phyllis offered some great practical advice, and the rest of us are here for moral support. You are talented and motivated and a good catch for any firm.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry. Sure hope something shows up quickly.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this, Debbie! Take deep relaxing breaths (really!) and know that you are very strong and talented and will get through this. You've made it through tough times before and you will again.
ReplyDeleteDitto to Phyllis' wise advice above.
Sending prayers and positive thoughts tour way.
AnitaJ
Debbie, so sorry to hear this. Honestly, I can't think of anything that hasn't already been said - but wanted to let you know I will be praying for you.
ReplyDeleteThis is rotten! I wish I had contacts in Tampa to help. I don't have any better thoughts than the ones written before my comment. Sending you lots of positive vibes.
ReplyDeleteThis is rotten! I wish I had contacts in Tampa to help. I don't have any better thoughts than the ones written before my comment. Sending you lots of positive vibes.
ReplyDeleteOh, Debbie, here's hoping that someone else finds out soon what a resourceful and enthusiastic employee you are. Prayers and good wishes from miles away...
ReplyDeleteDeep breath. Great advice here, take one day at a time and do something positive and proactive every day. You are not going to go down over this. You are too smart and too good for that. Repeat that. You will come out the other side of this, you are strong. And since I am now in Florida I can come over and we can throw things at walls for a bit. Hang in there kiddo, thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteOh no! Sending you lots of positive job searching energy!!
ReplyDeleteOh Debbie, how awful! I am so sorry. You've been so happy there and worked so hard for them. It seemed like such a mutually beneficial relationship. Whoever gets you next will be very lucky indeed.
ReplyDeleteCHEER CHEER CHEER heading straight at you from kalkatroona.... hoping, with all fingers and toes crossed, this means something even better is waiting for you just around the corner....
ReplyDeleteOh crap! You are DEFINITELY in my prayers. What a shock - so sorry to hear that this has happened.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear the news. Hang in there, things will get better.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry, Debbie! I hope things turn around and pronto!
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. I know, though, that you will land on your feet and find another job right away.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I'm so sorry! Phyllis gave great advice - and seriously, law firms are a dime a dozen here in Tampa. I will keep my eyes and ears open for you, and pray for an even better opportunity.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear that Debbie!! I wish the best for you and soon!
ReplyDeleteJust joining the chorus of well wishing and prayers during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteOh my dear, that is terrible. Maybe this is a start of something better, face this situation with the hope. We pray for you!
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I really hope all the positive comments and great advice your many fans have left here do give you a boost. Best vibes from me, too.
ReplyDeleteRooting for you! Get what you can out the last employer and I hope they gave you a damn good reason for letting you go. Notify the mortgage company of your situation - sometimes they can be sympathetic? Good luck in your search for a new job.
ReplyDeleteSorry to read this, and of course sending prayers and positive thoughts that things turn around asap!
ReplyDeleteIf I were in your position I'd want to know why I'd been let go. I agree with what someone said above - it sounds very unlikely to be for a personal reason and knowing that for certain will put you in a better frame of mind for the job search.
ReplyDeleteSending you luck and peaceful and calming vibes. It's OK to cry. Go easy on yourself. You will get through this <3
You are smart and hard working and you have great experience. Another firm out there is looking for you right now. You can do it, keep on going xx
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear this horrible news. Do not feel defeated. If u push on through you will get any job soon. In the meantime stay positive try not to let the depression consume you.
ReplyDeleteGosh Debbie I am so sorry to hear this. All I can say is that there must be something even better coming your way. Take care and sending prayers for you x
ReplyDeleteI'm so very sorry Debbie! I can't imagine what you're going through. My prayers are with you.
ReplyDeleteI join all the others in sending you some hope and cheer to hang onto right now. I've watched this happen too many times with family members, friends, and neighbors over the last several years. It's so difficult, but each and every one has come through. Many times the new situation has turned out to be even better than what they had before.
ReplyDeleteYou are a creative, talented, and skillful person--don't forget that and be sure to let prospective employers know! Too many times when people get in a position like this, they start to lose faith in just how much they have to offer.
Stay as positive as you can. As your comments show, many people care and believe in you.
That sucks to high heaven..But one door closes...you are an amazing woman with so many skills! Positive energy your way and prayers you find your way. Never give up. Ever thought about combining your sewing and graphic skills and start your own business?
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. I've been there and can relate to how you're feeling. HUGS. Take care of yourself. As hard as it can be to believe at times, it will work out. I'll pray for a quick resolution.
ReplyDeleteWow, I'm so sorry. Hopefully things will turn around for you soon.
ReplyDeleteWould I love to see you posting more, and sewing more --- you betcha -- I miss reading your humor and thoughts -- but life changed and boy do I understand that --- I really hope that a job comes your way, they say when one door closes another opens, I'm sure something wonderful is waiting for you --- you are a wonderful woman and the perfect spot is still out there waiting for you -- so do as all the suggestions say get out there and market yourself !! Keeping you in my thoughts & prayers that you make it through this struggle to the next path in life ---
ReplyDeleteWell, let me join the chorus here. You are an amazing, positive person (even though I don't know you personally, I know you through your blog) and this termination has nothing to do with you or your skills...which are obviously fabulous. Best wishes for a speedy transition to something even better.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, sorry to learn of this. Losing your job is never an easy thing to deal with. I am in Pinellas County and sometimes learn of jobs in Hillsborough. I will keep you in my thoughts and let you know if I run across anything.
ReplyDelete2nd comment - 'cuz you're still in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteI want you to become British and try out for The Great British Sewing Bee.
Two episodes have already aired - look on YouTube for the bootlegged episodes.
You would win in a heartbeat.
Rats! Sending all the good Karma I can muster in your direction. I'm so sorry this happened, but it does sound like something that didn't have anything to do with you, otherwise they would have given you a reason. It may turn out that it was best you leave!
ReplyDeleteTake a little relaxing time to regroup, sleep and eat and take care of yourself, then start with the tips given here to begin finding something new. You aren't homeless, btw, I'm also in Pinellas County a couple hours away, and would come get you if needed. I have a spare bedroom, a sewing room, and it's dog friendly :)
When one door closes, another one opens. You'll find it. This is another thinking of you and cheer up message.
ReplyDeleteSending prayers and good vibes your way. This is temporary.
ReplyDeleteI second all of Phyllis' advice. I am so sorry you are going through this and hope it passes quickly. With your talent, you should land a job in no time!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. I hope something comes about very soon. Prayers for your emotional strength and well-being during the search.
ReplyDeleteOh no, how horrible!! Very, very sorry to hear that :-(..
ReplyDeleteTo keep it practical, I'm sure you'll be getting interviews quickly, with all that good recent experience under your belt. Have you started thinking about outfits? I think you've changed size since the last round, so some alterations/quick production might be in order?
Debbie I'm sorry this is happening to you. Some awesome advise in these comments use them and I will keep you in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your job ESPECIALLY since you were working so hard! I usually don't comment but I do follow (you're on my favs) because you write so beautifully on life and craft. Being a single woman with no back up, I totally feel your panic and fear. All of it being just and natural. I hope you were treated with kindness during your release and provided with excellent references. By your posts, you can tell that you have grown with this job and will be able to take your new found confidence and talent with you to a new position. I'll be sending you good vibes until you post that you've found employment. Wishing you all the best!
ReplyDeleteI will keep you in my prayers!
ReplyDeleteDebbie, count me as another one that was totally shocked by this post. It seems it was not long ago that you had your review (Jan I think) and you got the highest percentage salary increase of those amounts given. So, it can't be you. Probably most of our families have be hit by this at one time or another and have come out on the winning end of things.I expect you to be no different even tho it may not seem that way now.
ReplyDeleteCompanies are being hit hard by new government requirements, and I suppose your company is just among those. A dear friend of mine had to close his small business of 20+ years and lay off his employees because of just those things. He almost got an ulcer worrying about his small number of employees.
Hang in there! We are all pulling for you.
Not only will I pray for you, Debbie, but I'm going to pray for the crazy people who were foolish enough to let you go. People with your dedication, creativity and drive don't come along very often, and I know this can only mean that God has something better planned for you. Hugs, Rebecca
ReplyDeleteThinking of you. So sorry to hear this news. Sending you lots if hugs.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you. So sorry to hear this news. Sending you lots if hugs.
ReplyDeleteYou ARE in my prayers, Debbie. So sorry to hear this news as I know you were so happy in your situation. Unfortunately, this is the real world we all live in today. You just never know. In the meantime, sew on and thing positively. Big hugs sent your way, friend.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I found your blog in December and bought an iPad for keeping up. You give us something magnificent in your ideas and your enormous skills. Because of you I've resumed sewing this winter.
ReplyDeleteYour blog is superbly written and contains a deep trove of useful information. My hope is that your next path will incorporate more of these gifts in your money-making work. Your talent far exceeds that of many of the articles in Threads and Vogue Sewing magazines.
My heart is with you. Blessings. And much gratitude.
Debbie,
ReplyDeleteGosh I really feel for you!! You have been such an inspiration to me in so many ways. It pains me to see you hurting like this!! I'm in Sarasota if you are interested in re-locating, I can put out feelers. You are a strong woman and you will weather this storm. Hang in there and please let us know how you are doing!!
Debbie,
ReplyDeleteGosh I really feel for you!! You have been such an inspiration to me in so many ways. It pains me to see you hurting like this!! I'm in Sarasota if you are interested in re-locating, I can put out feelers. You are a strong woman and you will weather this storm. Hang in there and please let us know how you are doing!!
Sending you a big hug and hoping this is an opportunity in disguise for something better to come along.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this..... Sending good thoughts and prayers your way.....
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this!! Sending good thoughts your way from the midwest!
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I am sending all of my best positive energy your way!
ReplyDeleteOh, Debbie, I join the chorus of shocked well-wishers. Best of luck in finding an even better position in the near future. You deserve a break!
ReplyDeleteDebbie, you deserve an amazing letter of referral from this company that you have worked your heart out for! If they haven't given you one, I'd definitely demand it.
ReplyDeleteAnd take the steps that Phyllis recommended. Also lots of good advice on destressing here. Best of luck.
Just wanted to say that I am praying for you..I've had that happen to me too - I was blindsided by the layoff! Good luck!
ReplyDelete!!!!!!! LOTS of prayers, good thoughts and wishes going your way. What a shock!! I totally believe in your ability to bounce back even better than before (haven't you already proven that??) but we all need a little freak-out time in crisis.
ReplyDeleteLove and support from across the Atlantic
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this! I don't have much to offer other than a cheer-me-up comment.... But it's Spring! A time of new beginnings and sunshine! You KNOW you're a fabulous employee, and someone will surely recognize that soon. Just hang in there!
ReplyDeleteOh my... I am so sorry and send you many hugs. You received an abundance of good advice and like Carolyn said... read these comments over and over to help you over this hump.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, this stinks. I'm in shock, so I can only imagine how you must feel. Phyllis has such great suggestions; I can't do better, but I wanted to echo her comment that you've added an amazing skill set to your portfolio with your latest job. Your new expertise in a legal setting might also be applicable to another sort of professional services environment--consulting, accounting, architecture, engineering, etc. Good luck!!!
ReplyDeleteAww man, that totally stinks Debbie. I will definitely keep you in my prayers, and I know you will land on your feet once again!
ReplyDeleteOh, I got that feeling in the pit of my stomach just reading this, having been there too. What Phyllis said - #1 and #2, especially. But first, take care of yourself and know that you are an 11 out of 10!!
ReplyDeleteNo! No! No! This is so wrong! It was the perfect job! Hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteOh, my... if only I could send you a big wad of cash!! Maybe a fundraiser, a pay-pal account to tide you through? Explain honestly and I bet strangers would be able to leave a dollar here and a ten-spot there just for you to get through this. You would help others to feel good, too, about giving to somebody right when they really need the help!
ReplyDeleteI really hate to hear your news Debbie which is a first since I always have just loved reading your blog for a long while. When we were close to retirement and had to reorganize our livelihood due to a death in the family owned business I could think of nothing else and while we got things sorted out and separated I was terrified and even started stitching,embroidering and altering rtw for people ( made me even crazier) and was a basket case just in general. We had savings but nothing much coming in for a good while. Dh had to build another shop and we had a lot of equipment to buy again and settle with partnershio which made it even worse. I'm sure lots of us as one poster mentioned would like to help in some way.Maybe you can make some things to sell between interviews and put them online.Of course I don't know about unemployment income limits as far as what you might make or do as part time work or any of that stuff so I would make sure I kept within those limits until you find a new spot. You are much better prepared having had a good job recently to get rehired and you are so talented. It's really hard in this economy to go from housewifery to a job and you've crossed that hurdle with flying colors. I just really hate hearing about the job loss.That really bites. Hang in there,you are so smart and talented. We are all here for you and prayers of course going up.
ReplyDeleteI really hate to hear bad news for you. I wish you the best and hope that this is a blessing in disguise and that something better is right around the corner for you. My prayers are with you. Keep posting your feelings and updates I read it continually and look forward to hearing about you.
ReplyDeleteBlessings.
Hope these past few days have been a little easier. Thinking of you often.
ReplyDeleteHey Deb, I have read your blog for years now and really appreciate all you put into it. I'm sorry I have not written before because you are lovely and so are all your projects. Please don't let yourself get down on all this shenanigans in your external life, you will rise above b/c you are a survivor and the strongest type of person to be had: a good person.
ReplyDeleteNow, done with the gushy stuff, buck up Marine Mom, and get back in the game!
Sincerely, Sarah
Deb, I am so sorry this has happened to you. It seemed as if you were just beginning to settle in to some real happiness. I can understand the overwhelming emotions you must be feeling right now. Know that you are important to all of us, and hopefully things will sort themselves out and you'll be back running at full pace again soon. You are in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteSending you good thoughts and prayers--so very, very sorry that this happened. You have been such a trooper, with all that has happened in the past year--God bless you and keep you.
ReplyDelete*huggums* Don't lose your light and do your best to stay positive. Just know that you are more than the sum of your trials and you WILL be okay.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry about your situation. I hope you find something soon
ReplyDeleteSorry to read this news. Keep your chin up and remember that one door closes only so another can open! Good Luck to you.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear about this. You absolutely deserve better -- and I believe you will get what you deserve.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I am so sorry to hear your bad news. I was abruptly laid off from a law firm that I had worked faithfully for for 7 years. Right after the Christmas party. This was 20 years ago and I still can get upset thinking about it. BUT I tell you this because my life did get much better soon after the "event" and I did find happiness, and so will you!
ReplyDeleteYou have been such an inspriation for me - what would I have done without your wonderful cover-stitch tutorials, for instance.
I am sending you positive thoughts throughout my days.
Debbie, I am so sorry to hear your bad news. I was abruptly laid off from a law firm that I had worked faithfully for for 7 years. Right after the Christmas party. This was 20 years ago and I still can get upset thinking about it. BUT I tell you this because my life did get much better soon after the "event" and I did find happiness, and so will you!
ReplyDeleteYou have been such an inspriation for me - what would I have done without your wonderful cover-stitch tutorials, for instance.
I am sending you positive thoughts throughout my days.
So very sorry to hear this, and hoping that a new job turns up quick smart.
ReplyDeleteI had to read your post 3 times to make sure I was reading the right blog, the right news.... Dang. I know it stings, but I also know you have a world-full of bloggers & readers supporting you and being here for you. Keep us up to date, ok? We care.....
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about you job. You loved it so much, and put forth so much effort. I know you will find something even better. I just want to tell you I am thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry about your situation. We are living in critical times. Matthew 10:29-31 reminds us of our worth to God. He cares for the birds of the earth and He cares for you. Here is the URL of the One Stops in your area.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.floridajobs.org/onestop/onestopdir/
Hopefully they can assist you in your job search. Remember you are worth more than many sparrows to our Father. Agape
So sorry to hear about the job. Phyllis is spot on with her advice. Sign up immediately for LinkedIn. The best job hunting site is www.indeed.com. Set up an alert and it will notify every time a new job in your field and area is posted. I do recruiting for high tech companies. If there's anyway I can help you, please contact me.
ReplyDeleteI agree with everyone's advice. I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your job. It stinks. Law firms do have a tendency to work that way. Apply for unemployment, apply at temp agencies and sign up for monster dot com and linkedln
ReplyDeleteCraigslist has good job listings too.
You deserve the best, and I hope this is a door opening to an even better job ahead.
ReplyDeleteOh, I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear that you lost your job. What a shock! I will keep you in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this. Hoping you find something soon. Love your wonderful smile! Prayers!
ReplyDeleteDebbie. I am so sorry about this. Praying for a new job for you and for your well being.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, absolutely stunned to read your news. Unbelievable. Prayers for you across the miles. Flo in Germany.
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I know that you are suffering and trying to get back to some sense of normalcy, but keep in touch with us to let us know how you are doing. We are all so worried about you and your family.
ReplyDeleteLet me be the umpteenth to express my support for you. I've been there. I was in legal for 7 years in the '90's and suddenly had the rug pulled out from under me too...with 3 children to support and no other income. I temped for about a year and decided to switch arenas. I wound up working for a major research university - found through the temp agency. I am still there today and couldn't be happier. Good luck to you! I know you'll come out of this for the best!
ReplyDeleteugh. don't know what else to say. just, ugh.
ReplyDeleteOh my - just catching on posts and saw this. I hope by now you are coming to terms with the change and putting your best forward forward and showing some new employers what a fab-u-lous candidate you are.
ReplyDeletePostive thoughts beaming your way . . . .
Debbie, the economic crisis also hit me and I took a job last year that was well below my capacity. 8 months in and I landed the job I've been trying to land for 7 years in Europe. My experience at the interim job helped me clinche it, incredibly. You never know. Keep your eyes open and take what you find. It's temporary. I put on my CV that I was working my then-present job due to the crisis, my new employers respected that. It's true that there is always work for people who want to work, even in lean times. Seek and ye shall find--it's true. You can do this. Surf over to an interim agency now and think about contacting your old employers to ask them for contacts. Really! xxxx from Brussels (this is Katharine not her DH)
ReplyDeleteI too am in shock and had to re-read your post a couple of times for it to sink in. It brought back all the feelings and shock of my own firing after 15 years of service to a company. I know that you were looking forward to many happy and productive years with this company. I am so sorry and if I could do anything, I would. You have received some excellent and practical advice that will help. Make sure you get letters of recommendation from supervisors, co-workers, and boss. Start job hunting immediately. Your health insurance should be in effect for a couple of months. What a terrible thing to happen.
ReplyDeleteHugs and good wishes. Phyllis gave some good advice. There are tons of us who wish you well; hope that helps a little.
ReplyDeleteI hope something good comes your way. I have lost jobs suddenly and it is devestating. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteI didn't comment on your post immediately because I was actually speechless. That is too awful, I really feel for you. Hopefully you are feeling better now, realizing that you have further developed your skills in your ex job yand are ready for the next step in your career. You are smart, strong, loyal and willing to give your best to an employer who is ready to do the same! Please post a quick note, because you have a lot of online friends who are hoping for good news.
ReplyDeleteDebbie,
ReplyDeleteI just heard that Verizon is opening a new office in Orlando and is hiring 750 people. Don't know if you are interested in relocating across I-4!
Ugh! Debbie, I am so sorry to read that the job you loved so much has ended! But perhaps there is an even BETTER job waiting on the horizon...the proverbial 'open window" perhaps! You have lots of great interview clothes now...so I'll cross my fingers that you are quickly ushered into the next 'perfect' job situation!
ReplyDeleteWhat a shock! First of all, sign up for unemployement now. Also, if you have a life insurance policy you may be able to cash in the interest it's gained without affecting the value of the policy; I did this back in 2000 when I was suddenly without a job and had 3 kids to support. It got me by until I found another job. I also got a waitressing job that I continued to work for over 10 years (evenings) even after I did get a new office job. You're way smarter and employable than I was and I know you'll find something. In the meantime I know what it's like to be scared shitless! You WILL be okay!!
ReplyDeleteThinkin of you Debbie, hope you are doing well.
ReplyDeleteOh dear! Stay strong, Debbie!
ReplyDeleteNOOOOOOOoooooooooo!!! I am so sorry. this has to mean something even better is coming up. Phyllis gave great suggestions. And I think I would take Ann at her word (Gorgeous Things) and indicate that some fabric therapy might help :)
ReplyDeleteBlessings,
Patti
Debbie-
ReplyDeleteYour post rendered me speechless when I first read it...
I emailed you via your etsy site with a few words of encouragement.
Any updates for us? Just say you are getting through it, and acting on some of the excellent advice from previous posters, such as filing immediately for unemployment, getting a letter of recommendation,etc.
Best, Bernadette
Well? How are you? What is going on?
ReplyDeleteDebbie, I have been concerned having gone through the shock of such a happening. How are you doing? Any more insight?
ReplyDeleteHi Debbie just to say that I (along with lots of others I'm sure) am still thinking of you and hoping that your situation is improving.
ReplyDeleteDear Debbie, still thinking of you and hoping that you are able to get yourself on track, you are in my thoughts and clearly those of hundreds of others.
ReplyDeleteHi Debbie,
ReplyDeleteHoping and praying that things are looking up again for you!!
Hope you are ok Debbie !! Warm hugs from Nova Scotia
ReplyDeleteAileen
Debbie,
ReplyDeletePlease post something so we know you are okay!! Or we may have to send out the search teams!
I'm so sorry, Debbie. You are a very talented and inspiring woman, and I know you'll find something even better very soon.
ReplyDeleteIt will work out! Have faith and keep your head up :-)
ReplyDeleteWhat would lure you back into the sewing world? Any project catch your interest?
ReplyDeleteHoping you have had some luck on the job hunt Debbie! Sending positive vibes and thoughts your way. I'm so sorry, such a disappointment. I have not been blogging or sewing lately (in a funk) so I missed this. Thinking of you! Email if you need to vent or cheering up!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about this -- have been there myself. Breathe. One thing at time. Keep you eyes open for that door that is opening somewhere...it is.
ReplyDeleteTake care & best of luck!
~Jen
Haven't heard from you on the blog for awhile. Hope you are doing good and doors have opened for you. Miss your blog
ReplyDeleteWhere are you? People are concerned and we sure can identify. Please just let us know what's happening and how you're doing.
ReplyDeleteWondering how you're doing and hoping things are moving in a positive direction. Let us know. HUGS.
ReplyDeleteI see I'm not the only one wondering about you - hope everything is working out in some way - keeping you in my thoughts, heart, and prayers!
ReplyDeleteHi Debbie....just wondering how you're doing. I think of you often and send good thoughts your way.
ReplyDeleteI hope the path is by now a little more clear for you. So sorry that this happened.
Hi Debbie....just wondering how you're doing. I think of you often and send good thoughts your way.
ReplyDeleteI hope the path is by now a little more clear for you. So sorry that this happened.
Hi Debbie, I have been thinking about you and hope that you are okay. (((Hugs))), I know that you are hard at work looking for work but I was wondering if you might think about pitching a coverstitch class at Craftsy. I would sign up in a minute at full price. Be good to yourself.
ReplyDeleteDeb, it would be nice if you would let all of us know that you are okay. People care about you...as you can see by the number of posts in response to your plea for encouragement...we're thinking about you and rooting for you!
ReplyDeleteThinking about you, Debbie. I was crushed for you when you shared this bad news. I'm just one of many who cares about you. (((hugs)))
ReplyDeleteDebbie, we miss you and pray your job search will bring you an even better position than the last. Wish that I lived close to you and you would consider offering your services to my sister and me for adjusting patterns to fit us (for $$s, of course). I truly admire your talents and spunk.
ReplyDeleteThinking about you.
ReplyDeleteThe person who responded recently about a cover stitch class on Craftsy has a great idea. I echo that.
Meanwhile, I'm rooting for you and send much cheer your way.
Truth is, you could teach anything. You are excellent at that. My hope is that your new work will include teaching sewists like myself. You are quite gifted.
ReplyDeleteJust dropping by to link up to the tutes page and let you know that I am thinking about you and praying for guidance and provision! ;-)
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